YES / NO / MAYBE
Each of you privately marks what you'd like to try. At the end you only see what you both want and what one wants and the other is considering. A «no» is never shown, and neither is anyone's «yes» unless it matches.
Ticking «yes» commits you to nothing: it's an invitation to talk. Whatever you try, take it slowly, with clear limits and a safe word.
Set up the game
Make it yours before you start.
How you play
When you finish you get a code to send to your partner, and you paste theirs.
Choose the level
Your turn!
Answer yes, no or maybe to each one.
Answer yes, no or maybe to each one.
Pass the phone to your partner
Your answers are saved and hidden. Once your partner has the phone, they tap the button.
Your answer code
It doesn't include your name and it doesn't leave your phone until you send it. Share it only with your partner.
Your matches
How to play
Choose the level and how you'll play. Each person answers every activity on their own with yes, no or maybe, without seeing what the other marks. At the end, the game crosses both lists on your own phone and only shows the matches: what you both want and what one wants and the other is considering.
Matches only
Shared «yes» answers and «yes + maybe» are shown. Never a «no».
You choose
Three levels, five sections, on one phone or two.
Private
Nothing is sent to any server and the code has no names.
Some toys you'll love
To try out your «yes» answers: a suction toy, a vibrating ring, a good lubricant or a starter kit.
Reviewed by Pilar LópezPsychologist and sexologist
Frequently asked questions
Can my partner see what I said no to?
No. Only the activities you both said yes to, and those where one said yes and the other maybe, are shown. A «no» never appears, and neither does a «yes» that doesn't match.
Is anything saved or sent anywhere?
Nothing is sent to any server: everything is worked out in your browser. If you each play on your own phone, your answers stay only on your phone until your partner's code arrives; on a shared phone they aren't saved. «Start again» deletes everything. The code has no names, but it does hold your answers, encoded rather than encrypted: share it only with your partner.
How do we talk about the «maybes»?
They're the most interesting part: that's where the curiosity is. Ask each other what it would take to turn it into a yes —more trust, going slowly, a particular toy— and only try it if you're both comfortable, with a safe word.
What if there are no matches at all?
That's normal, especially at the higher levels. Try the mild level, talk about what you already enjoy or repeat the list in a while: desires change.
Can we play in different languages?
Yes. The list is the same in all five languages, so the code of someone playing in English can be compared with someone playing in Spanish. If you choose different levels, only the questions you have in common are compared.
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