Guide to Buying at our Gay Sex Shop
Exploring the universe of an online gay sex shop offers a wide range of toys designed to satisfy very specific desires. This guide will help you choose the products that best suit your needs, taking into account your desires and type of partner.
Will it be for solo use, to share, or both?
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Solo use:
Ideal for those who want to explore sensations or relieve tension without depending on another.
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Penis: realistic masturbators, suction devices or vibrating rings with intensity control.
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Anus / Prostate: small plugs, vibrating prostate massagers, progressive dilators.
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Mixed: toys that stimulate the penis and perineum at the same time or vibrators with a prostate curve.
Practical recommendation: start with a compact format, easy to clean, and with adjustable modes.
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Couple use:
To integrate play into the relationship and increase connection during sex.
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Shared toys: double rings, external vibrators, or app-controlled massagers.
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Mutual stimulation: anal plugs for both, penis sleeves or extensions, lubricants with warming or vibrating effects.
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Role dynamic: if active and passive roles are defined, you can combine a vibrating ring for the top and a prostate massager or plug for the bottom.
Practical recommendation: prioritize rechargeable, silent toys made of medical-grade silicone.
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Mixed use (solo and couple):
For those who want a versatile toy.
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Anal Vibrators With Remote Control or app (work solo or as a couple).
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Vibrating rings with dual stimulation.
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Prostate massagers with ergonomic bases, useful both in solo use and shared interaction.
Practical recommendation: look for toys with multiple modes and remote control; they expand possibilities without changing models.
Which area do you want to stimulate?
In our Gay Erotic Store, you can find absolutely everything you need and desire; in this list, we assist you in choosing the right toy according to your tastes and pleasures:
1. Penis Stimulation
Main area of male pleasure.
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Beginners: cock rings (delay orgasm and increase erection), simple "sleeve" type masturbators, or elastic eggs.
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Intermediate: suction devices or vibrating masturbators with realistic internal texture.
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Advanced: automatic machines or models with heat, rotation, or remote control.
Recommendation: use water-based lubricant and always clean after use; prolongs useful life and improves sensation.
2. Testicle Stimulation
Amplifies pleasure when combined with the penis.
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Simple toys: double rings (penis + testicles), soft silicone extenders.
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Intermediate: adjustable straps or perineal vibrators that transmit vibration to the scrotal area.
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Advanced: metallic rings or perineum massagers with pressure control.
Recommendation: don't use metallic products without experience; they can compress too much.
3. Anal and Prostate Stimulation
Area with high nerve density and direct access to the prostate (source of intense orgasms).
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Beginners: small wide-based plugs, soft dilators, models with light vibration.
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Intermediate: anatomical curve prostate massagers, plugs with remote control, progressive kits.
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Advanced: double vibration massagers (prostate + perineum), inflatable or rotating plugs.
Recommendation: always generous lubricant, safe material (medical silicone or steel), and rigorous cleaning.
4. Nipple Stimulation
Complements body play and can trigger intense reflex responses.
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Beginners: adjustable clamps or soft suction cups.
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Intermediate: suction devices with vibration or controlled vacuum.
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Advanced: weighted metal clamps or those connectable to electrical stimulation (electrosex).
Recommendation: start with gentle intensities and never leave clamps on for more than 10 continuous minutes.
5. Combined Stimulation (penis + perineum or penis + prostate)
Simulate the sensation of simultaneous penetration and internal pressure.
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Recommended toys: prostate massagers with external arm, vibrating rings with a perineal arm, lower vibration masturbators.
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Advanced: dual or app-controlled devices that synchronize internal and external stimulation.
Recommendation: these models are the most complete for those who seek more intense or prolonged orgasms.
What type of roles do you have in your gay couple?
Our online gay sex shop is perfectly classified to please all kinds of gay couples, with all possible role combinations:
1. Active and Passive Couple (defined roles)
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For the Passive (receiver):
Focus on anal pleasure, relaxation, and prostate stimulation.
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Beginners: wide base plugs, soft dilators, or progressive sets.
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Intermediate: vibrating or remote-controlled prostate massagers.
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Advanced: inflatable plugs, dual stimulation massagers (prostate and perineum), or app-controlled vibrators to use during sex.
Useful complements: long-lasting lubricants, hygiene wipes, anal relaxers.
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For the Active (penetrator):
Focused on enhancing erection and prolonging control.
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Basics: penis rings or double rings (penis + testicles).
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Intermediate: textured or vibrating sleeves that increase sensation and cushion friction.
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Advanced: hollow harnesses to prolong penetration, masturbators for before or after sex.
Useful complements: delaying gels and natural lubricants compatible with condoms.
2. Active and Active Couple (exchange or mutual play)
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Shared toys:
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Remote-controlled or app-controlled prostate massagers (one controls the other).
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Double plugs, shared vibrating rings, or double sleeves for mutual masturbation.
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Perineum stimulators or plugs that can be used simultaneously by both.
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Flexible role play:
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If alternating, it's practical to use non-porous materials or double toys (easy to clean or use with condoms).
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"Reverse double penetration" type toys: designed so both receive internal stimulus while one penetrates.
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Double-Ended Vibrators or plugs with independent control.
Recommendation: always use condoms over toys if shared, and clean with neutral soap or antibacterial solution after each use.
3. Passive and Passive Couple (no active penetrator role)
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Complementary toys:
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Plugs, prostate massagers, anal vibrators, or individual progressive kits.
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Double dildos (flexible or rigid as preferred) allowing simultaneous or face-to-face penetration.
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App-Controlled Vibrators to synchronize sensations.
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External toys:
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Focus:
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Promote body synchronization and connection without the need for traditional penetration.
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Seek coordinated prostate and perineum stimulation, or alternate sensations with cross-remote control.
Selection of Sizes for Anal Toys
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Small (up to 2.5 cm in diameter / 8–9 cm insertable)
Recommended for beginners or first anal experiences.
Facilitates muscle adaptation and helps learn to relax the sphincter.
Examples: thin plugs, soft dilators, or narrow prostate massagers.
Tip: always start with plenty of lubricant and progress slowly.
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Medium (2.6–3.5 cm in diameter / 9–11 cm insertable)
Provides a clear feeling of fullness without being demanding.
Ideal for those who comfortably tolerate small toys or seek a more pronounced pressure point on the prostate.
Examples: medium plugs, curved prostate massagers, plugs with vibration or remote control.
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Large (3.6–5 cm in diameter / 11–14 cm insertable)
Designed for experienced users or lovers of deep filling.
Produces intense and long-lasting stimulation, suitable for prolonged play or advanced training.
Examples: XL plugs, final training dilators, or inflatable toys.
Tip: progress gradually, use abundant lubricant, and do not keep inserted for prolonged periods.
Comparison of the Most Purchased in a Gay Sex Shop
| Product | Level | Area to Stimulate | Level of Stimulation | Advantages of this Product Type | Disadvantages | Ideal for those who seek... |
| Anal Dildos | Initiation ★ | Anus | Low | Variety of sizes, ideal for those starting with anal penetration. | Not always comfortable for all users, especially beginners. | Starting anal penetration with an accessible and gradual option. |
| Anal plug | Initiation ★★ | Anus | Medium | Perfect for gradual dilation, ideal for beginners. | May not be sufficient for those seeking a more intense experience. | Increase anal dilation capacity gradually. |
| Masturbators | Medium ★★★ | Penis, Mouth (oral sex), Body | High | Simulates oral sex or penetration, with vibration or texture options. | Requires lubricant and care to avoid irritation, especially models with vibration. | Simulate various oral sex or penetration experiences with variable intensity. |
| Prostate Stimulators | Advanced ★★★★ | Prostate | High | Direct prostate stimulation, highly pleasurable and effective for those seeking deep exploration. | Only for more experienced users, may not be comfortable initially. | Exploring prostate pleasure with a design specialized for advanced users. |
| Double Dildos (for passive gay couple) | Advanced ★★★★ | Anus, Body | High | Allows shared experiences between the couple, ideal for mutual penetration. | Requires coordination and communication between the couple, may be challenging for some. | A shared and mutual penetration experience in a couple, with both involved. |
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Read more Frequently asked questions about Gay Sex Shop
We take our customers' privacy very seriously. All orders are shipped in neutral, discreet packages with no indication of the contents or our store. The sender's name is also generic to ensure confidentiality from the moment of dispatch to delivery.
Es importante considerar el tamaño, el material y la funcionalidad del dildo. Si eres principiante, opta por algo más pequeño y con materiales suaves como silicona hipoalergénica. También podría ser útil elegir un modelo con ventosa para mayor estabilidad durante el uso.
Water-based lubricants, such as PJUR ANALYSE ME (WATER), are compatible with all toys and condoms, offering a more natural feel. Silicone-based ones, like EROS CLASSIC SILICONE, provide longer-lasting and smoother lubrication, perfect for longer sessions, but should not be used with silicone toys.
Choose a smaller-sized anal plug if you're a beginner or seeking comfort, gradually increasing as you get accustomed. Pay attention to the length and width, always aiming to complement your sensations without overdoing it. Remember to use suitable lubricants to ease insertion and avoid discomfort.
To prolong the lifespan and safety of your toys, clean them carefully after each use with specific cleaners like EROS CLEANER. These cleaners are alcohol-free and safe for the toy's material. Make sure to dry them well before storing them in a clean, dry place.
Condoms with ribs and dots, like the DUREX DAME PLACER, are designed to enhance stimulation and shared pleasure. They offer additional texture that increases sensitivity for both, making the experience more intense and satisfying.
A lubricant with a soothing effect, like the ANAL LUBE CALMING LUBRICANT, helps to relax the area and minimize friction, making the experience pleasant and pain-free. It is advisable for those seeking extra comfort and a more relaxing experience.
Check that the toys are made of hypoallergenic, high-quality materials, like medical-grade silicone. Also, ensure they are free from phthalates and certified for safe use. Choose recognised brands that guarantee quality and safety in every product.
Consider your personal preferences regarding size, texture, and additional features such as vibration. Try realistic models with adjustable vibration, like the REAL DELUXE Nº5, which offers a close-to-real experience and can be attached to flat surfaces thanks to its suction cup.
