Advanced sex toys

What an advanced toy is

Not extreme for the sake of it: it assumes you already know what you are doing. Diameters and lengths above average, very intense stimulation, or mechanics that need preparation.

Check the measurements before buying

Diameter before length

You can leave length unused; diameter is not negotiable. A 1 cm jump in diameter is far more than it sounds.

Insertable length, not total length

The product page gives both. The one that matters is insertable: the base, ring or handle do not go in.

Build up gradually

Above all with anal. A graded set of anal dilators is more useful — and cheaper — than buying the big one straight away. And plenty of lubricant, always.

Safety, which here is not a formality

A flared safety base is mandatory on anything anal, no exceptions. No porous materials. Stop the moment there is pain.

If it is too much

That is not a failure. Go back to intermediate and come back later.