Vivelavita: The GameONLINE SEX CARD GAME
A deck to connect, play and light the spark. No winners, no losers: just shared pleasure. Set the mood —low lights, your favourite drink and phones out of reach— and turn over the first card.
- More connection
- New experiences
- Made for couples
Your safe space: if a card doesn't appeal, it's discarded. Nobody has to do anything, and a safe word stops everything.
Set up the game
Make it yours before you start.
The thermometer
Players
Your turn!
Turn over a card and see what you get.
Pass and negotiation: one of each per person
How to play
Start on Warm, with connection and question cards, to get in tune. When the trust is flowing, move up to Hot and the actions come in; save Sizzling, with the dares, for when you're ready for the full thing. Each of you has one pass (discards the card, no questions asked) and one negotiation (changes a detail: «the ice, yes, but on my back»). When you're done, «Finish with aftercare» draws a closing card to look after each other.
Consent
If a card doesn't appeal, it's discarded. Nobody has to do anything.
Communication
If you love something, say so: feedback is the best aphrodisiac.
No rush
You don't have to reach the end of the deck: the game is the destination.
Some toys you'll love
To take the cards further: massage oils, blindfolds, handcuffs and more sex card games to play without a screen too.
Reviewed by Pilar LópezPsychologist and sexologist
Frequently asked questions
How do you play the online sex card game?
Pick a thermometer level and tap the deck: a random card from that level is turned over. Whoever's turn it is does it, and «Turn over a card» passes the turn. Cards don't repeat until the level runs out.
What is the thermometer?
The game's levels. Warm only has connection and question cards; Hot adds the actions, and Sizzling, the dares. That way the intensity rises when you want it to, not all at once.
What if a card comes up that I don't fancy?
It's discarded. Each person also has one pass, which swaps it for another with no questions, and one negotiation, to change a detail («the ice, yes, but on my back»). Nobody has to do anything.
What are the aftercare cards?
Closing cards: a moment of care and affection after the intensity. The «Finish with aftercare» button draws one.
Can we play on paper?
Yes: «Print the deck» gives you all 93 cards in colour to cut out. And on a phone you can play one-handed, free and with no sign-up.
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