My first vibrator

If you're not sure, start with an external one: a bullet, one to hold in your palm, or a finger vibe. For most women, clitoral stimulation is what gives the most pleasure, and with an external one, there's no need to insert anything. If you feel like exploring internally, choose a G-spot one with a gentle curve or a rabbit, which stimulates both inside and out at the same time.

It's the most common doubt. Always start with the lowest intensity and, if it still feels intense, use it over your underwear or place it near the clitoris instead of directly on it. Pressing less also makes it gentler. Before buying, check the product page to ensure it has multiple intensities: that way, you can gradually increase.

Smaller than you might think: when starting out, girth matters more than length. In the product details, look at the diameter and the insertable length (the part that goes in), not the total length, which includes the handle. A curved shape and a soft or flexible feel make the first time more comfortable.

None are mute, but the quiet ones stay at a gentle hum that doesn't pass through a closed door. It sounds more when it vibrates against something hard, like the nightstand, and less under the sheets. If you're concerned, tick "Silent" in the filters above.

Silicone: non-porous, doesn't retain odours, and easy to clean. Avoid PVC and jelly, especially in an insertable toy. The material is listed on each product page.

For external use, it's not essential, but it makes the friction more pleasant. However, we do recommend it for insertion. Use water-based lubricant with silicone toys: silicone-based lube can damage the material over time.

Before and after using it, wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, and dry thoroughly. Check the product details to see if it’s waterproof before submerging it fully under the tap. Store it dry, separate from other toys, and charge it occasionally even if not in use.

Rechargeable if you're going to use it often: charges via USB and you won't spend on batteries. Battery-operated if you want to spend little to try or prefer not to rely on a charger.

No. We send it in a plain box, no stickers, no shop name on the sender and nothing indicating what's inside. If you prefer, you can pay cash on delivery or pick it up at the courier's office.

Yes, and it doesn't mean you've chosen poorly. Every body needs its time to discover what intensity, rhythm, and area it likes. Try it out without rush and without a goal, change position and intensity: it's a toy to get to know yourself, not a test.