My first anal experience

With a small smooth silicone plug, featuring a fine tip and a wide base. If you want to go bigger, a set with various sizes; if you're after a different sensation, some slim anal beads or a small vibrating plug. At first, size matters more than functions.

Because the rectum doesn't have a stopper to prevent an object from sliding inside. That's why any toy for anal use must have a wide base, a ring, or a sturdy cord to pull it out. Never insert something that's not designed for that purpose.

Look at the maximum diameter on the product sheet, not the length. To start from scratch, one between 2 to 2.5 cm; if you're already comfortable with a finger, up to 3 cm. Better if the tip is fine and widens gradually, without steps. One that's too thin might slip out. If you want to progress, a set with various sizes allows you to do so without buying one by one.

To start, it’s not necessary. A plug without a motor is the simplest: nothing to charge or buttons to learn. If you fancy trying it, choose a small one that begins with a low intensity and that you can also use while turned off.

A lot, and more than you think: the anal area doesn't lubricate itself. Reapply when you feel it's dry. With silicone toys use water-based lubricant; the silicone-based lasts longer, but it can ruin that material.

Just pop to the loo beforehand, have a shower, and keep your nails short if you're using your fingers. Find a moment without rushing, a comfy position, and have the lube and a towel ready.

Stop. Breathe, apply more lubricant, and try again more slowly or with something smaller. If you feel pain, it's best to leave it for another day: the body needs time to get used to it.

To start, silicone: it's soft, somewhat flexible, and comfortable. Metal and glass are rigid and heavier; they're a favourite among those who already have experience and can be tempered with water for temperature play.

At first, just a few minutes. If you're comfortable, gradually go longer on other occasions. Remove it slowly, with more lube if needed.

With lukewarm water and neutral soap or a toy cleaner, before and after use, and dry it well. Don't use it in the vagina without washing it first; if you're going to alternate, put a new condom on it each time.

No. The anal area has many nerve endings in any body. Prostate toys are designed for people with a penis, but plugs and balls are for everyone.

No. We send it in a plain box, no stickers, no shop name on the sender and nothing indicating what's inside. If you prefer, you can pay cash on delivery or pick it up at the courier's office.