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Test on your hand: Before using your vibrator, it is advisable to test the intensities on your hand to avoid any unpleasant surprises.

Masturbate with music: Most vibrators with a mobile APP have a vibration mode that syncs with the music you’re listening to. It's fun to try it, isn't it?

Lubricant: This product works and is enjoyed much more if you use it with a water-based lubricant (like these).

How to find the G-spot: If you want to be sure to find the G-spot, you just need to check these tips.

No vibration: If it's your first time with a vibrator, using it with the vibration turned on might feel a bit overwhelming. You can start by playing with it without turning it on, and when you feel comfortable, gradually activate the vibrations.

Disinfection: Anal sex is wonderful, but we must not forget that dangerous bacteria live in the anus, which we must eliminate from our toys after using them. You can clean them with pH-neutral soap, but to be 100% sure of good disinfection, we recommend using a specific erotic toy cleaner (like these).

Help with dilation: The key to enjoyable anal sex is achieving good dilation of the anal sphincter. Here are 10 tips for pain-free anal sex, and here are the 10 best positions. Also, if you've never tried using an anal dilation lubricant (like these), it might help you a lot, as they relax the anus and promote dilation.

No need to insert them whole: Remember that the G-spot is located about 5 cm away, so you may not need to insert more than that to fully enjoy.

The technique: To stimulate the G-spot, try inserting the vibrator and mimicking a 'come here' motion (bending the tip upwards towards the belly button, and gently pulling towards you). This angular motion is key to effectively reaching and pressing the area.

Pressure over speed: The G-spot usually reacts more to firm and consistent pressure than to maximum vibration. Hold stable pressure for a few seconds before increasing intensity.

Slow exploration: At first, glide the vibrator very slowly, searching for rougher or more sensitive internal textures. This area often responds with a feeling of being “fuller” or “warmer.”

Short pauses: Sometimes the G-spot responds better after 2–3 second pauses between movements. Use this to amplify sensation without overwhelming.

Combine with the clitoris: If you notice that climax is elusive, add external clitoral stimulation with your hand or a mini vibrator. The internal + external combination is often more effective than isolated stimulation.

Avoid dryness: If you notice uncomfortable friction, add lubricant immediately. The G-spot reacts much worse to dry rubbing.

Positions that ease access: Lying down with knees elevated or in spooning position increases the natural curvature that facilitates reaching the area.