DILATOR TRIO

Incompatible: Remember that this toy is not compatible with silicone-based lubricants (use a water-based one instead).

Lubricant: This product works and is enjoyed much more if you use it with a water-based lubricant (like these).

Painless: If it's your first time, you might be interested in our 10-step guide to pain-free anal sex.

Kegel Exercises: If you want to tone your pelvic floor, here is this complete guide, where we teach you how to correctly perform the Kegel technique, various postures, and the incorporation of Ben Wa balls.

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Disinfection: Anal sex is wonderful, but we must not forget that dangerous bacteria live in the anus, which we must eliminate from our toys after using them. You can clean them with pH-neutral soap, but to be 100% sure of good disinfection, we recommend using a specific erotic toy cleaner (like these).

Help with dilation: The key to enjoyable anal sex is achieving good dilation of the anal sphincter. Here are 10 tips for pain-free anal sex, and here are the 10 best positions. Also, if you've never tried using an anal dilation lubricant (like these), it might help you a lot, as they relax the anus and promote dilation.

Use time: Ideally, start with 10 to 15 minutes a day, and gradually increase up to 2 hours (yes, this is like going to the gym, after all, we're strengthening a muscle).

If you get too tired: Reduce the use time, buy lighter balls, or bigger ones (the bigger they are, the easier they are to handle and the less tiring they are).

How to use them?: We have written the most comprehensive guide on the internet about how to use your Chinese balls, you can read it at this link.

How to use dilators:
· Use plenty of water-based, pH-balanced lubricant (like these), apply as many times as needed during the process.
· Insert slowly, straight or slightly inclined downwards (like a tampon).
· If there is discomfort, stop.
· Do Kegel exercises, this will relax you and help continue inserting.
· Focus on relaxing the muscles.
· When you reach your maximum insertion without pain, gently move the dilator for 5 to 10 minutes. Also make rotations.

When to move to a larger dilator?: This process may take weeks, depending on your condition. When you are completely comfortable, you can move to a larger size.

Insert in exhalation: The external sphincter muscles relax during exhalation. Starting the insertion of the plug while exhaling reduces resistance and the sensation of pressure.

Warm the sphincter beforehand: Before inserting the plug, gently apply circular motions around the anus with lubricant for 20-30 seconds to help relax the outer ring. This technique is recommended by pelvic floor physiotherapists.

Progressive sizing whenever possible: If it’s your first plug, using a smaller one for 2-3 minutes before switching to the definitive one reduces the likelihood of discomfort by more than 50%, according to progressive dilation studies.

Let the body ‘suck it in’: Instead of pushing, place the lubricated tip and wait a few seconds. The sphincter tends to absorb the plug reflexively. This avoids forcing and allows for a more comfortable entry.

Maximum recommended time: Recommended continuous use: 15-20 minutes if it’s the first time, extending progressively if there are no discomforts. Avoid numbness or loss of sensitivity.

Slow withdrawal: Remove the plug as slowly as it was inserted. Sudden withdrawal may generate an aggressive sensation in the internal sphincter.

Be cautious with the tactile silence of soft silicone: Some very soft silicone plugs can create a vacuum when removed. A slight twist and micro air entry prevent the suction sensation.

Check lubricant during use: Anal friction increases lubricant absorption. Reapplying every 5-10 minutes keeps the experience smooth and without tightness.

Basic contraindications: If the person has anal fissures, inflamed hemorrhoids, or persistent pain, it’s best to avoid use until resolved. This prevents negative experiences and unnecessary damage.